Now, I'm done with exams and college and my summer has officially begun (HAPPY SUMMER SOLSTICE BTW CHAPS), so now I'm looking for something to keep me occupied, and I'm pretty sure this chick still fancies me. Problem is, I'm not sure, and earlier this year, I ingratiated myself into her group of friends a bit too well so I got to found out all about her sex life which hasn't put me off HER, but made me nervous about myself lol! She's been with a guy who messed her about and he had a massive cock that hurt apparently, and the other guy she was with made her squirt. Yeah. So it's not the most welcoming situation to an averagely endowned virgin to tackle! Thinking about it though, i'm definitley shifting down the path of trying out females I think, out of sheer boredom if nothing else, but something else is calling me that way as well. Any thoughts? Have a good weekend lads, much love!
Your size will not matter if you know what to do with what you've got. Her experience will be a benefit if she knows you are inexperienced. If she is interested in your for more than a hook up, encourage her to tell you what she likes and then do that. Try everything and many positions. Do not make it about your dick. When you are with a woman, it is about the woman. Your fingers are as important as your cock. Clip nails and use a nail file to get rid of anything sharp. Soft hands feel better on soft skin so pay attention to the condition of your hands. Your lips are as important as any other organ on your body. Use them everywhere and all over but keep in mind wet takes work with most women. Fucking is last if you want it to be hot wet and satisfying for you both. If she gives good head its up to you to pace the action so you can finish in the right zone. Tell her what you need and pay attention to your signals if you want it to last more than ten minutes. All night is much more fun with the right woman.
ReplyDeleteSo, I'm catching up and this is SO far out of my comfort zone (ha) but I reckon if you feel like having a go with this girl then why not? Having a go sounds wrong, but you know what I mean.
ReplyDeleteLike anonymous said, size won't matter and if she's had "Mr Too Fuckin' Big" then anything smaller will be great in her eyes. So you win there. And maybe she would squirt for you too. Maybe you're gonna be even better than that stud. Who knows. If she knows you've still got your front-door v-plates that might actually be a real turn on for her. Chicks (so I've been told) are often far more into the concept of it all, than the act itself.
As for it being a calling, I remember reading somewhere - and I've quoted it before online - that sexuality is like a long line. You can think of it like a 100m track with totally gay guys at one end, totally straight guys at the other, truly bi in the middle. People fit in everywhere along the track from one end to the other. And they're not necessarily fixed to the spot. Attraction is flexible to some degree. Alcohol makes them even more flexible. I'm 100% at the man-on-man-action end myself and can't imagine sex with a chick but if I HAD to choose (gun to head, no other option) between a saggy old fat guy and a gorgeous fit girl I could probably run along that track a little closer to her. Oh my god you're turning me straight, you sexual wizard you. LOL.
Anon - I did think about that flipside, although very lightly so that's me being pessimistic lol. And very sound advice, many thanks, I'll bear it in mind!
ReplyDeletePeace Bro, you're such a female-phobe! I write 'labia' and you freak out! :D And again, another flipside I didn't consider!
Sexual wizard. Have to say I've never heard that one before haah!
Ha. I promise I'm not completely phobic of them-there-parts but to quote Alan Partridge talking about Ladyboys, "I don't find them attractive, they're just confusing" LOL.
ReplyDeleteClearly I need some help though because whenever I see a va.., nope can't type it, it's like "What the hell happened down there?!!!" Boobs aren't so bad, but they just look like they'd be a bit annoying and get in the way. See? I'm waaaaay at one end of that running track.
Right, I'm off for a quick pre-bedtime viewing of some abs and cocks to cleanse my mental palate. :)